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TBA

(872 posts)
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 02:00 PM Wednesday

My four year old granddaughter is a sage. Wisdom for the ages.

We were swimming and she asked if we could race each other to the end of the pool.
As were were about to start the race she said; "Granny, grab my hand and hold on so we can win together".

That is what we Dems believe. In this world, maybe we need less competition and more "winning together".

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My four year old granddaughter is a sage. Wisdom for the ages. (Original Post) TBA Wednesday OP
Thank you. And give your granddaughter a thank you hug from this grampa Stinky The Clown Wednesday #1
Should be rquired reading "The Case Against Competition" by Alfie Kohn. SharonAnn Wednesday #24
And ourselves. I enjoy sailing and was able to LT Barclay Wednesday #28
This is why I love theater KT2000 Wednesday #29
My grandson is in middle school theater. I agree. TBA 5 hrs ago #39
Thanks for the book rec ... here's one in return. eppur_se_muova Wednesday #31
Thanks - link: Pinback 23 hrs ago #38
Ds and Rs have the same values but Ds add one Bernardo de La Paz Wednesday #2
Out of the mouths of babes! MIButterfly Wednesday #3
You are welcome. I think about what she said often. TBA Wednesday #6
Lovely OP malaise Wednesday #4
A truly just cause. Festivito Wednesday #5
I loved this! Your granddaughter is a smart cookie with a big heart. Diamond_Dog Wednesday #7
Spot on. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #8
Spot on. 3catwoman3 Wednesday #9
Wonderful post! anciano Wednesday #10
That is beautiful angrychair Wednesday #11
I love this. It warms my heart and makes my day better. Thank you for posting it. NBachers Wednesday #12
Hope for the future PJMcK Wednesday #13
Sweet! BurnDoubt Wednesday #14
She is brilliant! mcar Wednesday #15
Democrats care about people. Republicans care about money (and hating people). OMGWTF Wednesday #16
She is going to be a wonderful adult. LoisB Wednesday #17
A thousand years ago DENVERPOPS Wednesday #18
TBA........... Upthevibe Wednesday #19
I would say she may be a Taoist Sage. multigraincracker Wednesday #20
Beautiful wise words from your Cha Wednesday #21
❤️ littlemissmartypants Wednesday #22
Awwwwwww, snifffff. .that is no doubt the sweetest thing I will see today. niyad Wednesday #23
This truly made my day. PittBlue Wednesday #25
sweetest thing i've ever heard. barbtries Wednesday #26
Beautiful! H2O Man Wednesday #27
Fabulous!! ElementaryPenguin Wednesday #30
Win together should be the Dems new motto. Your granddaughter is most certainly a sage 💖 Clouds Passing Wednesday #32
So we can win together wryter2000 Wednesday #33
Out of the mouths of babes... whathehell Wednesday #34
OMG!!!!! a kennedy Wednesday #35
Adorable! Jrsygrl96 Yesterday #36
That is the loveliest thing I have read in AGES!!! BobTheSubgenius Yesterday #37

SharonAnn

(14,069 posts)
24. Should be rquired reading "The Case Against Competition" by Alfie Kohn.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 04:26 PM
Wednesday

It's an excellent book. I read it 25-30 years ago and it really opened my eyes to the disservice we do to others by making everything a competition where "winner takes all".

LT Barclay

(2,996 posts)
28. And ourselves. I enjoy sailing and was able to
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 04:54 PM
Wednesday

convince my wife that 2 boats are a necessity for life; and one is fast and the other is not. I often toy with the idea of racing the smaller, faster boat, but I realized that I can enjoy going fast without being bound up by comparing myself to others through competition. If I can be sure that I can compete without being disappointed in myself, my crew or my boat I may try it.

KT2000

(21,533 posts)
29. This is why I love theater
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 05:00 PM
Wednesday

in the schools. Putting on a play requires cooperation an support of others. The prop person is as important as the lead actor - if the phone rings and the phone is not on stage - big mistake.
I have seen so many students push themselves farther than they thought possible.
By the end, they experience comradery.

eppur_se_muova

(39,219 posts)
31. Thanks for the book rec ... here's one in return.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 05:09 PM
Wednesday
https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/329317/the-winner-take-all-society-by-robert-frank/

It always seemed to me that one of the biggest problems with competition is that it leads to redundant efforts, with inevitable waste. It's worth remembering that evolution only functions by killing off less successful organisms at a prodigious rate. Corps and exculpatory pundits praise "free market competition", but as soon as they make it to the top they start fixing the laws (by paying the lawmakers) to make sure no new competition to their own monopoly can ever succeed. So the beauty of the free market is that someone else has to go out of business.

Bernardo de La Paz

(56,669 posts)
2. Ds and Rs have the same values but Ds add one
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 02:09 PM
Wednesday

Ds and Rs love their families.
Ds and Rs love their country.
Ds and Rs love justice.
Ds and Rs love their religions (or freedom from religion).

Note: Ds and Rs view those things through different lenses, where for example, Rs sometimes see pardoning Jan 6 violent mobs is "justice". This is mostly because maga is largely "miscalibrated from reality".

What Ds add is a love for the wider community that exists in a range between "family" and "country". It is because Ds have more empathy, which is a set of feelings most often derived from more intelligence. Hard to be less blunt.

Your granddaughter is intelligent.

MIButterfly

(672 posts)
3. Out of the mouths of babes!
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 02:17 PM
Wednesday

What a sweet thing to say. And it's true, Democrats think of "we" - what's for the greater good. Republicans think of "me" - what's in it for me?

Thank you for this post. It really warmed my heart.

Diamond_Dog

(37,437 posts)
7. I loved this! Your granddaughter is a smart cookie with a big heart.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 02:47 PM
Wednesday

Thank you for sharing this!

angrychair

(10,764 posts)
11. That is beautiful
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 03:04 PM
Wednesday

I absolutely love it. It's easy to dismiss phrases like this as not being sincere. We need to be a little less jaded and look at issues and people with the open heart and pure soul of a child.

NBachers

(18,671 posts)
12. I love this. It warms my heart and makes my day better. Thank you for posting it.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 03:09 PM
Wednesday

I wish my granddaughter would say that when we were racing to the car to see who gets there first, but I guess there’s a limit.

BurnDoubt

(681 posts)
14. Sweet!
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 03:13 PM
Wednesday

I weep for the Babies.
Shame on us for leaving them such a hateful World.
Competition, Tribalism, and Jealousy have made their World toxic physically, emotionally, and Morally.
DO BETTER.

DENVERPOPS

(12,757 posts)
18. A thousand years ago
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 03:43 PM
Wednesday

Art Linkletter used to have a show on TV in the 50's called: Kids Say The Darnest Things...... Great show

My four year old son and I were driving by a hospital, and I said to him: "Look there's where your mom's father practices medicine".......
he replied," he doesn't practice dad, he does it for real".........LOL

My grandson and I, when he was about five, would watch dinosaur train......a disney? show about dinosaurs. The guy who ran the show made some statement about dinosaurs and my grandson said "that's actually a hypothesis"..............(His mother is a biologist and scientist) I thought I would call him on using that word and I asked him if he knew what a hypothesis meant. He said sure, it means a theory, but it has to be proven by running a lot of scientific experiments.

LOL

I think kids and animals are a lot smarter than we think......

multigraincracker

(35,909 posts)
20. I would say she may be a Taoist Sage.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 03:55 PM
Wednesday

Opposites define each other. With no winner there is no loser.
With no losses there is no winner.

They both arise together.

niyad

(124,678 posts)
23. Awwwwwww, snifffff. .that is no doubt the sweetest thing I will see today.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 04:24 PM
Wednesday

Thank you, and your loving granddaughter.

barbtries

(30,525 posts)
26. sweetest thing i've ever heard.
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 04:41 PM
Wednesday

definitely it is time to let the younger generations start leading.

Clouds Passing

(5,284 posts)
32. Win together should be the Dems new motto. Your granddaughter is most certainly a sage 💖
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 05:42 PM
Wednesday

whathehell

(30,174 posts)
34. Out of the mouths of babes...
Wed Jun 25, 2025, 09:49 PM
Wednesday

Such a wise and adorable little girl, and YES, this is what Democrats believe.

BobTheSubgenius

(12,033 posts)
37. That is the loveliest thing I have read in AGES!!!
Thu Jun 26, 2025, 12:23 PM
Yesterday

Not only is that little girl a complete gem, the people in her life must be great, as well. Hugs and a few tears for everyone!

I'm always very reluctant to post something in a thread as rare and precious as this.....oh, changed my mind, so I won't. I think it deserves its own thread, even though it won't be seen by nearly as many.

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