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Related: Editorials & Other Articles, Issue Forums, Alliance Forums, Region ForumsMy four year old granddaughter is a sage. Wisdom for the ages.
We were swimming and she asked if we could race each other to the end of the pool.
As were were about to start the race she said; "Granny, grab my hand and hold on so we can win together".
That is what we Dems believe. In this world, maybe we need less competition and more "winning together".

Stinky The Clown
(68,666 posts)SharonAnn
(14,069 posts)It's an excellent book. I read it 25-30 years ago and it really opened my eyes to the disservice we do to others by making everything a competition where "winner takes all".
LT Barclay
(2,996 posts)convince my wife that 2 boats are a necessity for life; and one is fast and the other is not. I often toy with the idea of racing the smaller, faster boat, but I realized that I can enjoy going fast without being bound up by comparing myself to others through competition. If I can be sure that I can compete without being disappointed in myself, my crew or my boat I may try it.
KT2000
(21,533 posts)in the schools. Putting on a play requires cooperation an support of others. The prop person is as important as the lead actor - if the phone rings and the phone is not on stage - big mistake.
I have seen so many students push themselves farther than they thought possible.
By the end, they experience comradery.
TBA
(872 posts)eppur_se_muova
(39,219 posts)It always seemed to me that one of the biggest problems with competition is that it leads to redundant efforts, with inevitable waste. It's worth remembering that evolution only functions by killing off less successful organisms at a prodigious rate. Corps and exculpatory pundits praise "free market competition", but as soon as they make it to the top they start fixing the laws (by paying the lawmakers) to make sure no new competition to their own monopoly can ever succeed. So the beauty of the free market is that someone else has to go out of business.
Pinback
(13,284 posts)Bernardo de La Paz
(56,669 posts)Ds and Rs love their families.
Ds and Rs love their country.
Ds and Rs love justice.
Ds and Rs love their religions (or freedom from religion).
Note: Ds and Rs view those things through different lenses, where for example, Rs sometimes see pardoning Jan 6 violent mobs is "justice". This is mostly because maga is largely "miscalibrated from reality".
What Ds add is a love for the wider community that exists in a range between "family" and "country". It is because Ds have more empathy, which is a set of feelings most often derived from more intelligence. Hard to be less blunt.
Your granddaughter is intelligent.
MIButterfly
(672 posts)What a sweet thing to say. And it's true, Democrats think of "we" - what's for the greater good. Republicans think of "me" - what's in it for me?
Thank you for this post. It really warmed my heart.
TBA
(872 posts)malaise
(285,781 posts)Rec 😀
Festivito
(13,742 posts)Diamond_Dog
(37,437 posts)Thank you for sharing this!
3catwoman3
(26,950 posts)That wisdom would make a good T-shirt logo. 🩵
3catwoman3
(26,950 posts)That wisdom would make a good T-shirt logo. 🩵
anciano
(1,869 posts)👏
angrychair
(10,764 posts)I absolutely love it. It's easy to dismiss phrases like this as not being sincere. We need to be a little less jaded and look at issues and people with the open heart and pure soul of a child.
NBachers
(18,671 posts)I wish my granddaughter would say that when we were racing to the car to see who gets there first, but I guess theres a limit.
PJMcK
(23,854 posts)Thanks for sharing this wonderful story.
I weep for the Babies.
Shame on us for leaving them such a hateful World.
Competition, Tribalism, and Jealousy have made their World toxic physically, emotionally, and Morally.
DO BETTER.
mcar
(44,803 posts)My oldest grand girl will be 4 next week. They are the best!
OMGWTF
(4,804 posts)LoisB
(10,878 posts)DENVERPOPS
(12,757 posts)Art Linkletter used to have a show on TV in the 50's called: Kids Say The Darnest Things...... Great show
My four year old son and I were driving by a hospital, and I said to him: "Look there's where your mom's father practices medicine".......
he replied," he doesn't practice dad, he does it for real".........LOL
My grandson and I, when he was about five, would watch dinosaur train......a disney? show about dinosaurs. The guy who ran the show made some statement about dinosaurs and my grandson said "that's actually a hypothesis"..............(His mother is a biologist and scientist) I thought I would call him on using that word and I asked him if he knew what a hypothesis meant. He said sure, it means a theory, but it has to be proven by running a lot of scientific experiments.
LOL
I think kids and animals are a lot smarter than we think......
Upthevibe
(9,609 posts)That is SO cool.....
multigraincracker
(35,909 posts)Opposites define each other. With no winner there is no loser.
With no losses there is no winner.
They both arise together.
Cha
(312,363 posts)granddaughter, TBA!
Mahalo for sharing!
littlemissmartypants
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niyad
(124,678 posts)Thank you, and your loving granddaughter.
PittBlue
(4,575 posts)❤️
barbtries
(30,525 posts)definitely it is time to let the younger generations start leading.
H2O Man
(77,048 posts)ElementaryPenguin
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Clouds Passing
(5,284 posts)wryter2000
(47,885 posts)Lovely
whathehell
(30,174 posts)Such a wise and adorable little girl, and YES, this is what Democrats believe.
a kennedy
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Jrsygrl96
(254 posts)Bruce Springsteen always says, Nobody wins unless everybody wins.
BobTheSubgenius
(12,033 posts)Not only is that little girl a complete gem, the people in her life must be great, as well. Hugs and a few tears for everyone!
I'm always very reluctant to post something in a thread as rare and precious as this.....oh, changed my mind, so I won't. I think it deserves its own thread, even though it won't be seen by nearly as many.