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Laurelin

(768 posts)
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:41 PM Yesterday

Anyone struggle to move on?

I had flu in April 2025. It turned into bronchitis. A few weeks later I was diagnosed with uterine cancer. I had surgery a few days after I had finally stopped coughing. Was recovering from surgery when they recommended radiation. The radiation was supposed tu be easy but it really hit me hard. I'm still very tired. Anyway now I have the flu again. I have done my best to get strong but at this moment I'm really, really discouraged. I know this is a bad flu but I've spent the better part of 4 days in bed and I'm just limp. My chance of cancer reoccurance is pretty low and I feel like I should be happy but I've got nothing.

It's a long explanation but has anyone else struggled after treatment? I'm not bouncing back...

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Anyone struggle to move on? (Original Post) Laurelin Yesterday OP
You have been sick for over ten months, you have a right to be tired! questionseverything Yesterday #1
Thank you, i do Laurelin Yesterday #3
I'm sure he thinks he is very lucky that you're still with him questionseverything Yesterday #8
I wish you wellness. From your story--it seems like your body got hit riversedge Yesterday #2
Thank you Laurelin Yesterday #5
Radiation is not always easy RockCreek Yesterday #4
Thank you Laurelin Yesterday #6
It will come RockCreek Yesterday #10
You are so kind! Laurelin Yesterday #15
It's also the time of deRien Yesterday #7
I can't wait! Laurelin Yesterday #9
Yes. mwmisses4289 Yesterday #11
Thank you Laurelin Yesterday #13
Oh yes. I had my Stage IV throat cancer surgery 17years ago this week. sinkingfeeling Yesterday #12
That sounds so difficult! Laurelin Yesterday #14
Healing vibes on the way to you SheltieLover Yesterday #16
Thank you Laurelin Yesterday #17
Hugs to you and your Lab SheltieLover Yesterday #18

questionseverything

(11,550 posts)
1. You have been sick for over ten months, you have a right to be tired!
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:46 PM
Yesterday

I hope you have a good support system to build you back up 🆙

questionseverything

(11,550 posts)
8. I'm sure he thinks he is very lucky that you're still with him
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:55 PM
Yesterday

Love, time and chicken broth is what you need, as you physically feel better the mental “better “ will return ❤️

riversedge

(79,398 posts)
2. I wish you wellness. From your story--it seems like your body got hit
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:49 PM
Yesterday

pretty hard. Radiation is so hard on a sick body. But I am glad your prognosis seems to be pretty good. Take care.

RockCreek

(1,282 posts)
4. Radiation is not always easy
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:50 PM
Yesterday

I have known people it hit very hard.
And your immune system has been getting hit after hit.
Long term survivor here, btw.
I think what you are experiencing is, unfortunately, normal.
The "bounce back" experiences get over-hyped to a point that it can feel bad if you aren't one of the very lucky ones.

Laurelin

(768 posts)
6. Thank you
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:53 PM
Yesterday

It is comforting to know you're a long time survivor! Maybe there will be real life again.

deRien

(318 posts)
7. It's also the time of
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 01:54 PM
Yesterday

year when it's cold, dark and wintry outside. Be kind to yourself... give yourself the gift of time to heal physically and mentally... watch for the crocus and daffodils that will be springing up out of the earth soon...

mwmisses4289

(3,221 posts)
11. Yes.
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 02:17 PM
Yesterday

After my diagnosis of endometrial cancer in Sept 2019, it felt like it took me forever to feel better again.
Take it slow, be kind to yourself, rest on days when you need it, have no qualms telling the rest of the world to eff off and leave you alone if you need it.
Sending a 🫂 your way.

Laurelin

(768 posts)
13. Thank you
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 02:19 PM
Yesterday

And congratulations. It's been 6 years. I hope they made the difficult recovery worthwhile!

sinkingfeeling

(57,209 posts)
12. Oh yes. I had my Stage IV throat cancer surgery 17years ago this week.
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 02:18 PM
Yesterday

I have had loss of jaw bone, repeated blistering, inability to chew and swallow, and my neck skin still peels about every 6 months. To say nothing of my tongue not being able to prounce Spanish words.
Radiation is the gift that keeps on giving.
I was very depressed about my condition after treatment for around a year. It was embarrassing to attempt to eat and to have to sip water every few minutes in order to speak.
Gradually things improved. Took a long time, So.just hang in there. Find a support group and attend meetings if you can. I found other survivors understand best and know how to help.

Laurelin

(768 posts)
14. That sounds so difficult!
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 02:22 PM
Yesterday

I am so glad you made it through. And happy that it was 17 years ago and you improved. Thank you for sharing.

Laurelin

(768 posts)
17. Thank you
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 02:54 PM
Yesterday

I'm very grateful for healing vibes. My lab says she loves shelties too. ( I do love your screen name)

SheltieLover

(76,759 posts)
18. Hugs to you and your Lab
Tue Jan 6, 2026, 04:10 PM
Yesterday

I don't have any Shelties now, but I sure enjoyed the years I had with them in the past.

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