Loners
Related: About this forumMerry Christmas Loners
It's a cold and windy night here. I'm snuggled up with my animals and having a cup of hot chocolate with rum.
My thoughts are with all my loner friends tonight. Some of us prefer the cozy solitude. Some of us would enjoy a friend or two for the Holidays. Some of us would like to moon the neighbors while screaming "Santa ain't real!" (Er, ok, that may just be me)
Whatever your circumstances this year, I wish you all peace and good health.
The Loner's Lounge will be open all night tonight and all day tomorrow. Drinks are free and I "borrowed" MIRT's hot tub for the day...
The password is "Go Away".
Cheers my friends!

flying rabbit
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backtoblue
(12,137 posts)
dhol82
(9,564 posts)Now Im home alone, plugged in to watching Bones, and totally content.
I will be home alone tomorrow happily reading a book for my blood club meeting on Sunday.
I treasure my solitude.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Except for the blood club meeting.
dhol82
(9,564 posts)
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)backtoblue
(12,137 posts)If one farted while mooning the neighbors in freezing weather...
Would it make a cloud?
dhol82
(9,564 posts)Not sure I would want to do that experiment.
But how amazingly Zen 😎
TreasonousBastard
(43,049 posts)you would have to be outside and freezing other body parts.
(Unless those body parts are no longer essential.)
littlemissmartypants
(28,307 posts)
❤
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Our night of peace before the fireworks and guns of New Year's.....
littlemissmartypants
(28,307 posts)I am sad missing my Dad though. Lots of tears shed the last few days.
dweller
(26,769 posts)and Ive cued up The Big Lebowski ... this is my night 😎
✌🏻
Have a great night!
dweller
(26,769 posts)Darker than a black steers tookis on a moonless prairie night ...
there was no bottom ...
✌🏻
IADEMO2004
(6,189 posts)I never knew. Fine with it. Let it be.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Pretty exclusive too...
More_Cowbell
(2,224 posts)I'm feeling blue about being jobless and about the pardons, but not about being alone. That was by choice.
I hope everyone is feeling safe and at peace.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)I'll surely regret it about 2am when heartburn launches its attack.
But for now, cheers my dear!
More_Cowbell
(2,224 posts)Thanks very much.
yonder
(10,095 posts)Now leave me alone.
You just keep on your side of the room!
jmbar2
(6,973 posts)I rent a condo with a crappy looking small front yard.
Even though it's not mine, I'm putting in the structures for a small garden that I'll plant with tons of bulbs, a terraced veggie bed, and stepping stone path. To make it more challenging, I'm trying to scavenge most of the building materials from empty lots and rocky fields.
I was absolutely in bliss today playing in the dirt.
I'm sick of Christmas music, ads, TV specials, shopping specials, etc. Nobody is giving me a new Lexus. Or diamonds from Kay jewelers.
Enjoy your evening and Christmas day, fellow loners! After tomorrow, it will only be about 290 days until it starts all over again.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Glad you got to get outside and enjoy it!
SheltieLover
(70,591 posts)

backtoblue
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CousinIT
(11,571 posts)....cozy solitude (with exception of my two furballs) is how I roll.
Zooming w/ family tomorrow but that's the extent of it.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Five years ago "Zoomin with the family" would be a day riding go carts. My how our lives have changed.
Karadeniz
(24,522 posts)backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Here's to a day of calm and peace.
LudwigPastorius
(12,805 posts)Merry...Happy...and all that.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)
TruckFump
(5,828 posts)Gentleman friend is coming over tomorrow morning and I am making quiche. Then movies. We each get to pick a movie. One rule: No westerns or chick flix.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)It ended up more like a frittata. Next time I might remember the pie crust lol.
Happy cuddling!
TruckFump
(5,828 posts)Except yesterday I made THREE trips to the store to finally get the cream cheese I use in the recipe. Has never failed to be great!
Have a great holiday!
dupagelib
(166 posts)Festavus for the rest of us!
sandensea
(22,850 posts)Who knows when, exactly, Christ was really born.
As you know, the date is simply a holdover from the Pagan Winter Solstice festivities.
Jesus' purported life story (his greatness as an activist and philosopher notwithstanding), a retelling of the Osiris myth.
Biblical scholars themselves agree that December would've been a most unlikely date given the presence of shepherds at the time (suggesting Spring) or the "Star of Bethlehem" - almost certainly a Jupiter/Saturn conjunction whose closest occurrence, astronomers tell us, would have been in October, 7 BC.
In short, no one knows - not clergy, and certainly not televangelists.
So, yes: A Very Happy Festivus to you and yours too, dupagelib.
And a Happy New Year.
Mr.Bill
(24,906 posts)The food prep has me fearing I will gain back the ten pounds I lost this year in one day.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)I lost 15 last fall. Quit smoking and found those 15 over the past year. Oh well, guess it's just a redo lol.
Wishing you and your wife a day of laughter and peace.
catchnrelease
(2,087 posts)even here in SoCalif! Nice for a change and I think we might even get real rain next week. That would be a great Christmas gift!
Happy Christmas to all of the loners, introverts, shy people, hermits etc! Enjoy a nice quiet evening and day tomorrow!
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)
Happy Holidays to the west coast

grantcart
(53,061 posts)peacebuzzard
(5,593 posts)that my morning started by picking up a case of bankers boxes to pack up piles of books and notes.
it snowed.
I made a nice dinner for one.
glad I did that before the power went out. I slept until it came back on.
Now I finally had my once a year eggnog with rum.
and fed cats.
Merry Christmas, blue. Here's to you and your post.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Haven't had that in years.
I woke up, fed the animals, and thinkin about a nap lol
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Paz.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)
Midnight Writer
(24,281 posts)Bought a pizza from a local Italian place, wrapped it up and put it in the refrigerator. I'll heat it in a skillet tomorrow for Christmas dinner.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)This thread is starting to make me hungry lol
yankeepants
(1,979 posts)No tree, no guests. a quiet day tomorrow (as if we ever have quiet) with a foot of snow expected. We bought a 12 lbs turkey and spent time watching a chef's tutorial on how to debone a turkey in order to lay it flat, add a stuffing layer and roll it into a roast complete with twine. Mission accomplished. We are also delivering 2 ten week old Dachshunds to a family in the morning. I have to bathe them both -Mr. Frank and Mr. Beans- early and get them ready for their new home with kids! They have been living here for nearly 3 weeks awaiting their big Christmas debut. Beyond that, one more dog coming in -a veteran visitor- we are going to eat, drink, binge watch, and be merry.
Cheers DU folk. I honestly DO NOT know what I would do without your compassion, wisdom, smarts, and humor in these trying times. Let's get through this.
backtoblue
(12,137 posts)Frank and Beans are awesome names
You have such a big heart to be foster parents. I wish for more caring humans like this. Happy Holidays to you and all your furry friends!