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11. And then get no credit for either and blamed for everything

Wed Jun 3, 2026, 07:51 PM

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And sadly it is far worse in many other parts of the world that I have lived and worked. To the point that we had the illusion that real progress had been made.

Then we nominated two women to run for president; a creepy mob boss convicted rapist and felon won both times. Making it oh so very clear what the majority of the people of this nation actually think about women. Pretty dismal, I would say.

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