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Scrivener7

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20. Having been a caregiver at times, I get it. A bit of time off is essential, even if it's just an afternoon.

Reply to CTyankee (Reply #19)

Sat Jun 7, 2025, 10:01 AM

Jun 2025

Maybe you can ask the housekeeper if you can bump up her responsibilities for an afternoon or two each week, and negotiate some compensation for that if you can afford it?

Even just knowing a break is coming can make a big difference.

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Scary day in the ER yesterday. [View all] CTyankee Jun 2025 OP

My wife, an RN has saved my life several times. multigraincracker Jun 2025 #1

I don't believe in the hand of fate but that sure was fortunate for you in that instance. CTyankee Jun 2025 #2

I'm the luckiest man in the world. Half of it good luck and half of it bad luck. multigraincracker Jun 2025 #18

I'm glad it came out well for you, and that you have good support around. Scrivener7 Jun 2025 #3

I'm fine. We are both exhausted. His from having this disability so suddenly and me as his caregiver. CTyankee Jun 2025 #19

Having been a caregiver at times, I get it. A bit of time off is essential, even if it's just an afternoon. Scrivener7 Jun 2025 #20

I am planning to do this. Next up: a PEDICURE! My toenails are way too long but it's a matter of money. CTyankee Jun 2025 #21

Perfect! But if your insurance is good, maybe a podiatrist can cut them down for only a copay. Scrivener7 Jun 2025 #22

Oh my,... medical emergencies can certainly be harrowing experiences. magicarpet Jun 2025 #4

Good for you, CTyankee. You have a level head and good instincts. Diamond_Dog Jun 2025 #5

I'm so glad things worked out well CTyankee JMCKUSICK Jun 2025 #6

Can your doctors office arrange for a paramedic or RN to check him over the weekend? irisblue Jun 2025 #7

good idea. We had a visiting nurse help me out after one of my hospitalizations. It was a great thing and I felt secure CTyankee Jun 2025 #8

So glad that you and hubby got such good care and attention. I hope you can niyad Jun 2025 #9

i had to have a foley catheter installed twice in my life . AllaN01Bear Jun 2025 #10

Goodness! Medical emergencies are the worst. hamsterjill Jun 2025 #11

I'm so sorry you went through that, but glad your quick wits and excellent medical care, provided a good outcome. LiberalLoner Jun 2025 #12

Oh, that's very nice of you. Thank you! CTyankee Jun 2025 #14

💙💙💙 LiberalLoner Jun 2025 #16

Sending positive vibes. iluvtennis Jun 2025 #13

I had something similar ten years ago. JustABozoOnThisBus Jun 2025 #15

I completely forgot about prostate issues in the heat of the moment. I'll mention it to hubby... CTyankee Jun 2025 #17