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TBF

(37,168 posts)
12. I would've told her straight up to put the phone away
Tue May 19, 2026, 10:28 AM
20 hrs ago

at the start. My kiddos are 22 and 19. We are older parents and have no problem w/telling them when the phones aren't necessary. It isn't that often because we are on screens a lot ourselves. But I have already explained to them that if they go to work for big companies etc all computer use can be monitored. I've been very clear about that because kids really are clueless - they are in the moment and don't think.

As a manager I think framing it as "there are some ground rules here, we keep our coats here, here's where you would clock in at the beginning of the shift (is that still a thing - it was when I had those restaurant jobs), this is when you put your phone in your pocket - you won't be on it when you're on duty", etc. I'd just spell it out.

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I would not have gone past the doughnut tray. OldBaldy1701E 23 hrs ago #1
And yet.... OhioBack2Blue 23 hrs ago #2
About two years ago - local ice cream store. Kid was on the phone. 3Hotdogs 22 hrs ago #3
If you have time to lean, you have time to clean. multigraincracker 22 hrs ago #5
It's been long time since I heard that expression MIButterfly 20 hrs ago #19
I usually got "get your ass to work" No cute slogans. Lochloosa 17 hrs ago #27
LOL! MIButterfly 17 hrs ago #29
Or pretend to work (Bill Hicks clip) cannabis_flower 15 hrs ago #31
First thing I thought of.... lol nt Shipwack 3 hrs ago #44
My most hated saying from my Dad..... SergeStorms 15 hrs ago #36
That's a good one! calimary 9 hrs ago #42
Maybe this was her first interview ever. Did you tell her that the texting needed to stop? irisblue 22 hrs ago #4
No. hamsterjill 20 hrs ago #13
17 is not an age blessed with an overabundance of employment related intelligence tho irisblue 20 hrs ago #18
But you learned, didn't you? hamsterjill 19 hrs ago #21
Told her twice. She was there a total of ...maybe 15 minutes. 634-5789 20 hrs ago #16
Then, IMO, with that info you were right. Thx for the reply irisblue 20 hrs ago #17
This message was self-deleted by its author WinstonSmith4740 15 hrs ago #34
17? She was probably just out of high school, or going into her senior year. WinstonSmith4740 15 hrs ago #35
That is a funny story...It is sad at the same time. Escurumbele 22 hrs ago #6
Likely no exaggeration... Trueblue Texan 21 hrs ago #11
I think your point is that the parents need to tell their kids FakeNoose 22 hrs ago #7
The parents may be modelling this behavior! RockCreek 22 hrs ago #8
I would have done the same electron_blue 21 hrs ago #9
Does anyone remember the articles a few years ago? Mothers accompanying their sons on job interviews? 3Hotdogs 19 hrs ago #22
I was at a local fast food restaurant when I noticed Dr. T 21 hrs ago #10
I grew up in the 80s with that same environment - TBF 20 hrs ago #14
Were they on their lunch or15 minute break? wnylib 17 hrs ago #26
Or early... cannabis_flower 15 hrs ago #32
I don't believe they were on break. Cars backed up at the drive-through, Dr. T 15 hrs ago #37
Sounds like the manager didn't have authority with the staff. wnylib 15 hrs ago #38
I would've told her straight up to put the phone away TBF 20 hrs ago #12
same Skittles 11 hrs ago #41
A teenager, who works hard at our bistro Zackzzzz 20 hrs ago #15
The employees collecting carts from the parking corrals at the grocery store stand in the corrals and use their phones, chia 20 hrs ago #20
Kids also take notes on their phones Bettie 18 hrs ago #23
Why didn't you demand she put her phone away? Picaro 17 hrs ago #24
My kids were raised to respect work. byronius 17 hrs ago #25
Let me just tell you what I saw today... BWdem4life 17 hrs ago #28
What a difference 20 years makes, but I can understand the scenario only too well DFW 16 hrs ago #30
The addiction starts early Remball 15 hrs ago #33
We have severely underestimated the addictive power of mobile devices at the peril of our children's futures and ... littlemissmartypants 13 hrs ago #39
It just not the teens ms.pamela 12 hrs ago #40
The new clerk at the store put the potato chips in the bag, first Ponietz 8 hrs ago #43
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