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auntAgonist

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2. I had such a hard time with the 'firsts' The worst being my Mother's dying in August of '97
Sun Dec 20, 2015, 11:44 AM
Dec 2015

I don't think it ever really gets easier but the way we deal with it changes over the years.

My first husband gave me a gorgeous framed photograph of my Mum the first Christmas after she died. His heart was in the right place and I really appreciated it but the timing, .. my god the timing
I was so glad he'd saved it for a private gift exchange between the two of us. I was so touched and so upset at the same time. I think it would have been really difficult to hold my emotions at our large family gathering earlier that day.

I'm so glad to see your positive hopes for having a good Christmas 47of74 and I pray your memories comfort you throughout the holiday and days to follow.

Merry Christmas to you and yours.

kesha

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