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Bereavement

In reply to the discussion: I never got to meet him [View all]

pnwmom

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3. What a story. Thank you for sharing it, Nictuku.
Sun Dec 16, 2018, 01:40 AM
Dec 2018

I'm so sorry you lost your nephew before you could meet him. I hope your financial situation one day allows you to travel out there to meet more of his family -- or that they could visit CA to meet you.

The hardest thing about deaths is beating yourself up with all the "could haves." Please don't do that. You did the best you could, in very trying, confusing, painful circumstances. But what you've done for your mother, making a home together, is wonderful.

Wishing you and your loved ones all the best.

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I never got to meet him [View all] Nictuku Dec 2018 OP
So sad you never got to meet your nephew. LoisB Dec 2018 #1
Sympathy Karadeniz Dec 2018 #2
What a story. Thank you for sharing it, Nictuku. pnwmom Dec 2018 #3
I'm so sorry karin_sj Dec 2018 #4
Thank you all for taking the time Nictuku Dec 2018 #5
Thank you for posting that. PoindexterOglethorpe Dec 2018 #6
I am so sorry for the regrets and the loss. mnhtnbb Dec 2018 #7
Nictuku, thank you so much for sharing your heart and hurt with us. auntAgonist Dec 2018 #8
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